When most people hear the phrase “couples tattoo,” they probably have to suppress a groan. Let’s face it: we’ve all seen some absolutely terrible couple tattoos. Even worse are the tattoos that contain a significant other’s name. Because, well, if the two of you decide to go your separate ways, you have one of three choices. You can get the tattoo removed, which is expensive and painful, you can cover it with another tattoo, or you can walk around for the rest of your life with your ex’s name on your skin.

The good thing is that there are tons of tattoo artists out there who know how to design really beautiful couples’ tattoos. These ones are artistic, lovely, subtle, and eye-catching. They’re a perfect homage to your relationship without being tacky or leaving everyone wondering why your shoulder says “Johnny.”

When looking for cool ways for you and your significant other to express your love in ink, take some inspiration from these gorgeous tattoos. It seems like there are a few simple rules for couple tattoos: keep them tasteful and beautiful, make them something meaningful to both of you, and for goodness’ sake, don’t include the others’ names!