There’s no doubt that planning a wedding can be stressful. To be honest, weddings often bring out the best or the worst in people. There are so many details to plan, and when you get the expectations of the family involved, the happiest day of your life can turn into a nightmare.

But it’s even worse when the bride has demands that go above and beyond normal expectations. Whether it’s demanding that bridesmaids lose weight or screaming at a caterer, all too many brides forget that their “special day” doesn’t earn them the right to be a monster.

That’s why many women have earned the nickname “bridezilla” after their abhorrent behavior at their own wedding. Newsflash: if you are horrible during wedding planning, people will remember it. And yeah, they’re going to talk about it for years afterward.

So, let’s all raise a glass of champagne, sit back, and swear to remember that a wedding isn’t about having perfectly-matched hairdos, flawless photos, or a daddy-daughter dance that will end up on YouTube. It’s a day to celebrate your love with all your family and friends. Here are 35 of the worst bridezillas that posters on Reddit have ever seen.